How to Kiss a Guy – 5 Tips to Create the Right Momentum for Kiss
June 23, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Kissing is an art and it needs perfect coordination of mind, brain, heart, eyes, and hands and of course; not to forget lips. How is this accomplished in a perfect pandemonium to create that effect of bliss and love? All these answers you will get by reading further.
Kissing is a very intimate act and one wrong move can cause a death bell to your blooming relation. There are many questions related to kissing a guy – when is the right time to kiss? How to approach him to kiss? What should be the intimacy level of first kiss? Definitely a kiss needs both confidence and boldness. Apart from it, there should be this spark between you to and a level of comfort ability before you plunge into kissing.
kissing is an emotional act and do kiss a guy; sure needs some effort and passion. There are a few steps that creates a good prelude to kissing and you will know whether the guy is interested and ready for a kiss…though very rarely is a guy not interested in a kiss unless he is a gay!!!
Well here are some tips to create the right momentum for kiss
1. Body language – You must flirt with him and give me good hints of your desire to kiss. These hints can be given in the form of a touch, brushing against his shoulders, smiling or just letting your hair down. Give him that curious Mona Lisa smile and he is sure to get interested in you.
2. If the guy is shy and responds slowly to your flirting act just be a little slow. You can start by holding his hand, caressing his cheeks or forehead on the pretext of cleaning something. Or just start with a small peck on the cheek.
3. Remove barrier – you need to talk to him, make him comfortable and most importantly touch him. You can use various pretexts of touching or brushing by him. This creates the perfect prelude to a kiss.
4. Now, when you feel the guy is prepared, just look into his eyes, come closer to him. You can hold his hands or better would be to hug him and then follow your heart and Kiss the guy. If the guy is happy, he will surely respond back.
5. After kiss – many tend to ignore this crucial part. Similar to creating a good prelude to a kiss, it is equally important to conclude it gracefully and beautifully. Once the kiss is over, look into his eyes for a second and then look down. Let him take the charge now. This is what boys love! They like to dominate.
Well, while you kiss, your heart tends to beat faster, especially if it your first kiss. Just follow your heart. If the guy likes you, he will surely respond back. To make the kiss perfect it should start with a proper flirty prelude for some time, culminating into a passionate kiss and should be concluded gracefully.
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Valentine’s Day Kiss – Make it Unforgettable
June 23, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Valentine’s Day involves a lot of kissing, hugs, cuddling, and sex for many couples, but do you know how to kiss the right way? Kissing is like an art. You can get creative, seductive, romantic, and really show your partner how passionate you feel about them. Yes, we all know how to kiss, but we also have certain ways of kissing that will turn our partners on. Some may enjoy hugging their partner first holding them tightly before starting to kiss, some may start by caressing their partners face slowly then leading up to a kiss, while others may enjoy grabbing their partner out of the blue and planting a very sensual kiss on them. Kissing is very magical, especially on Valentine’s Day. Whether you are sharing your first kiss on Valentine’s Day or creating a kiss your partner will never forget make it passionate.
I love kissing my husband and finding ways to make the kiss more passionate. Be creative and think how you can make that Valentine’s Day kiss memorable. Just think creating pleasure for you and your partner is very romantic, delightful, and definitely pleasurable. What kind of kiss can I create with my partner? Wow, there are so many different kissing techniques like the Vacuum kiss, Butterfly kiss, Surprise kiss, Eskimo kiss, French kiss, Electric kiss, Nip kiss, Angel kiss, Tempting kiss, Finger kiss, Ice-cube in the mouth kiss, Fruity kiss, Lip sucking kiss, and the Reverse lip kiss. I am sure there are plenty other ways of kissing, but these are the only ones I known will get the hearts racing, blood flowing, and temperatures rising for Valentine’s Day or really any day for that matter.
How to prepare for that special kiss
First thing make sure your lips are not dry. Place a nice moisturizer on them to soften them up. You can use a flavored lip balm, lip-gloss, or even a nice lip conditioner that maybe has a taste of honey, vanilla, strawberry, chocolate, or even a tropical taste.
Next- Must set the mood or atmosphere for that special kiss. If you are inside you can set up candles, romantic music, sit by a fireplace if you have one, dim the lights, or throw rose petals all over the house so you can kiss throughout the whole house. If you are outside you can go to a park and sit on the swings, mountains, by a beach, your first place you met, in a pool, gazing up at the stars so on and so on. So many possibilities here.
OK now you are getting ready to create this kiss. When your partner is standing in front of you make sure you start out by tilting your head and staring directly into his/her eyes. Slowly place your one hand on his/her face and the other hand on the thigh. Try to pull your partner closer. While you are staring at your partner rub your cheek SLOWLY against theirs. Then start with your fingers gently caress the cheeks, forehead, ears, and then move them very SLOWLY around their lips. Do not kiss him/her yet let your partner get really hot so they can imagine what surprise will be next.
Now start kissing your partners ear, cheek, eye-lid, forehead, neck, and then slowly start kissing the outline of your partners’ lips working your way to plant that lip-sucking kiss or Angel kiss. Slightly and slowly bite on your partners bottom lip giving them a little tease and a slight stimulation. Once you have started kissing your partner try to move your body to a slight angel, this way you will have access of caressing your partners’ thigh or private areas. The inner thigh is a very sensual spot for many, especially if you start placing your lips there.
You must remember kissing is a great way of showing how much you love your partner and also could be a super sensual conversation. Think about when you start kissing each other you may hear ooh, ahh, oh yea, oh baby, ooh that’s nice, Yes, oh wow, ooh that’s the spot, or maybe you might hear hell ya from some. It just goes to show you that you put a lot emphasis on your kissing technique to let you know all is going right, which will lead to a beautiful night of Romance on Valentine’s Day.
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How to Kiss a Girl and Blow Her Mind With Pleasure
June 23, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Copyright (c) 2008 Neo Young
So you want to know how to kiss a girl and have her knees buckle? I will lead you in this article in accelerating your skills as a kisser.
Most men have not taken the time to study the fine art of kissing a woman.
To establish the foundation on how to kiss your girl and really blow her mind with the experience, first use touch to progressively gauge whether your woman is ready to kiss you.
If you can move smoothly and tenderly in stroking her hair, neck, and ears, then she is more than likely ready to kiss you.
Enjoy the sensations that you are masterfully bringing her so that you can take hours to just enjoy each other so that when the kiss happens, the build up and sizzling electricity will be that much more amazing.
After you have created the foundation of physical comfort through touch, create the special moment of the kiss by touching her cheeks gently and guiding her face toward you.
Lead her powerfully yet gently. If she is ready to kiss you, as you slowly move toward her, she will close her eyes, smile, or move her face towards you. Go in 90% and allow her to meet you that remaining 10%.
Your lips have met, and you are now kissing her! Almost every woman has a fantasy and ideal of how she wants to be kissed. So here comes the secret on how to kiss your girl and find out what that ideal kiss is to her without actually asking her.
One of the easiest ways to find out is to simply pay attention.
People usually project outward that which we most want, especially in the physical realm, so we will give love the way we want to receive love and she will kiss you the way she wants to be kissed.
The key is then to model her kiss. This means to kiss her exactly how she is kissing you because her lips will be telling you her ideal kiss.
Why is modeling her kiss so potent? Have you ever met a woman who considers herself a bad kisser? I think not. So if you kiss her the way she kisses you are guaranteed to be good in her eyes.
Secondly, people who are like each other “like” each other, and when you kiss her just the way that she kisses you it is as if you have been lovers for ages
By kissing her in a way that is surprisingly familiar to her, she will feel safe, and on a subconscious level become bonded to you, and with that you can become her ideal lover through your kiss.
She has a fantasy in her head of how her ideal lover will kiss her, and usually she has probably rehearsed this over and over in her head. By simply modeling how she kisses you, you are more than likely coming close to that ideal in her head.
Listen to her lips with your whole body and all of your senses as you kiss her. When your lips touch, really pay attention to the pressure that she’s putting on your lips.
Pay close attention to the pressure, speed, and way she is kissing you with her lips and do the same to her. Notice how she is positioning her lips in terms of whether her lips are barely touching yours, or if she is pushing her lips into yours. Notice the configuration of her lips. There are four major configurations:
There’s the single top lip, where both of your lips are on one of her top lip.
There’s the single bottom lip, where both of your lips are on her bottom lip.
There’s the double lip, where the two of your lips are together and touching.
There’s the open mouth kiss, where both lips are further apart and perhaps your heads are slightly tilted.
The last one often leads into the French kiss, where your tongues are dancing with each other.
As a rule, hold off on the tongue initially. Most women like to take kissing slowly, and unless she is thrusting her tongue into your mouth, do not take the initiative until you have at least been modeling her kiss for a minute.
Continue to model her kiss for as long as possible. Pretend it’s a mirroring exercise and you are mirroring exactly what she’s doing.
Mirror also the time that she takes in touching the lips together and separating with your lips, so that you become essentially like two people with one lip, exploring each other.
Throughout the modeling process, you can be lightly stroking her hair, holding her head tenderly, or gently caressing her face to add the incredibly delicious moment.
Once you have modeled her kiss for some time, you can then venture to lead her with you kiss to deepen the passion and exploration.
If you really enjoy introducing your tongue into the kiss, then start slowly. You seldom want to just thrust your tongue into her mouth.
Allow her to lead slightly, especially with something as intrusive as the tongue, and just put it at the entrance of her mouth near her lips.
Let her take the lead first in beginning to dance with you. You want to listen and feel and merge into this dance between the two of you.
Keep your tongue soft and after a bit of exploration, you can trace her upper or lower lip gently with your tongue. This is a great way to test to see whether she wants to join you in the tongue dance.
If her tongue comes out to meets yours, then begin to dance with the tip of her tongue before engaging with her deeper.
There are several ways for you to amplify the deliciousness of the kiss. One of the ways is to say things in your head or out loud like, “I absolutely love kissing you”, or “You are such an incredible woman”, or “You are so yummy, I just want to devour you”, etc.
When you say these things in your head or to her it’s going to magnify the potency of the kiss manifold.
This is absolutely dynamite. Try it, and you’ll know what I mean. This is what will really blow her mind with pleasure and have her melt into you because you are adoring her in the way she has fantasized about by mirroring how she wants to be kissed.
To further amplify the deliciousness of the kiss, you can more fully incorporate all the finesse of touch. Stroke her face gently as you separate briefly before lightly engaging her lips again.
Caress the back of her head with both hands as you kiss her or move your hands down her back and press her chest against yours or move her lower back into your pelvis depending on what effect you like to co-create with her.
Coordinate the way you kiss her with how you masterfully touch her face, hair, neck, and back to create incredibly delicious sensations for her. After enough modeling, change the way you kiss her to generate a sizzling combination of pleasure with her.
Enjoy this incredible, magnificent gift that is the kiss, and delve into the many nuances and allow it to bring you both incredible pleasures.
Allow yourself to take two steps forward and one step back, so that you’re building the energy gradually. You do not have to move forward and amplify the energy all the time.
Let her know that she is an incredible kisser and that you really appreciate connecting with her in such a delicious way. Perhaps pause to share some intimate stories and cuddling before going back in to kiss her again.
Kissing can be so intimate, so juicy, and so delightful. It is an amazing way to continue to create the profound intimacy that you have with your woman.
Allow yourself the time, the patience, and the spaciousness to truly enjoy the work of art that is your kiss.
The best way to learn how to kiss a girl is to take hours to just make out with each other. Pretend that you are back in high school and that this is one of the most exciting discoveries you have made in life.
Savor every moment of the kiss with her and have this naturally lead you to deeper sensual and sexual exploration that will blow her mind.
Mastering the fine art on how to kiss a girl is only the tip of the iceberg on bringing your woman absolute incredible pleasures that she does not even know is possible.
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Role Of Kisses In Successful Dating
June 23, 2009 | Leave a Comment
How many types of kisses have you heard about? Many of you will answer kisses are kisses how does it make difference? But this does, in fact a lot when it comes to a date. Your dates can proceed in a perfect manner if you can incorporate some kisses on the right occasions. There are many countries in the world where kissing is considered to be an extremely private affair and they are never performed in public.
But in the western countries, there are no such restrictions. You can kiss your date almost anywhere provided you have the permission from him or her. This is not really a good idea to kiss a person on the very first day you see her. But if the date goes perfect and you see that the partner is quite happy with it then you can end the date with a sweet and short kiss on her cheek.
Generally women are slight touchy about kissing their dates and decent ladies will do it only after they feel emotionally involved with you.
How your date feels about kisses on a date?
This is really important to know about the way your partner feels about the kisses. There are some women and men as well who come from orthodox background and do not sport kisses in public on the first date. Especially the Asians and some British people look this is as an extreme act and indecent when done in public places.
This does not mean that they will never allow you to kiss. May be they will not like it to be done in hurry. Some of the western countries they take kissing as a general affair on the very first day they meet their date. Gradually when you meet the girl or guy on several dates, you can approach him or her for kisses. In fact this is a biological need and your date should also feel in the same way.
If you feel that your date is not comfortable with kisses after few times you have met and shared your feelings towards each other, then there is something wrong. May be he or she is not feeling about you in the same manner and you need to find out what exactly is going wrong.
Now this is a fact that kisses can bring the two of you closer. In fact kisses are the best way to express your passion and love towards your date. But make sure that the kisses are done at the right place and at a right time. Because little miscalculation can lead you to an embarrassing situation and even an unfortunate break-up with the partner.
By: Rodrigo Rehn
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A Lesson on How to French Kiss – Tips on How to Kiss Right and Passionately
June 23, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Kissing is a very romantic gesture of affection which is more intimate than any other sexual act. You do not have to be in Paris France to learn how to French kiss. Even while in Paris Texas you can still learn the mouth-mouth art of French kissing. Add to your lips a French flavor and kiss like a real soul mate. To kiss passionately you need to know the secret behind good timing. If you know when to go full-throated for the kill you will really get the kill but if you do the wrong timing, you will certainly miss it. To time correctly, pay close attention to your lover’s pace of breathing. If he is breathless and panting like an animal go straight for him. This calls for the lusty French kiss.
If your lover’s breathing is calm, relaxed and predictable, you have got some coaxing to do. Coy French kiss is most appropriate. The first thing to understand while learning how to French kiss is, every woman has her own different style of kissing. It all depends with the unique combination of your mouth’s anatomy. How wide you can stretch your jaws open, the length and width of your tongue and the height of sexual aggression and individual tastes. The mechanism applied is similar with any other type of kissing. All you have to do is tilt the head to one side, make your lips part, slowly ease your tongue into your lover’s parting lips.
The technique involved in a French kiss are divided into two. The two techniques are employed depending on how ready your lover is. If the panting suggests that he can’t wait to feel your lips, go for the lusty French kiss. This kind of French kiss doesn’t need any warm up. You are badly wanted by your lover and you want him as evidenced by your heavy breathing. Swiftly roll your tongue in circle’s around your lover’s mouth. This should be lusty thrusting. First do it shallowly then go deep. There should be coordination between the two mouths. Tilt your head to the other side and enjoy a repeat of the same. While at it you can as well bite his lower lip playfully. Lick his lower lip add a real French sensation.
If you feel that your lover needs some coaxing, go for the coy French kiss. The mellow breathing suggests a little warm up. Let the tip of your tongue lick his upper lip. Follow this by kissing him softly with no tongue involved. Teasingly taste his bottom lip them playfully brush your lips back and forth, up and down. Look at him seductively straight into his eyes. Eyes say a lot about what we feel and what we want. A sexy gaze can instantly arouse you to heightened levels. Add bits of moaning and a little panting to compliment your efforts. Easily slip your tongue between his parting lips. Continued coaxing will eventually lead to the lusty French kiss. Enjoy your French kiss while you are miles away from France.
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