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How To Kiss Girls With Ease

June 21, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Kissing girls: It’s meant to be fun. If you’re nervous about kissing women, or see it as only a gateway towards sex, you’re missing out. In fact, the more you take your time with kissing and truly enjoy it, the more chances you have of enjoying physical intimacy with a girl. So let me show you how to kiss girls–and enjoy it!

If you’ve never kissed before, the best thing you can possibly do is RELAX. It isn’t a big deal if you muck up your first kiss! Girls are very understanding, and you can actually laugh about it. I know so many couples who joke about their first kiss. The first kiss most people have is an awkward one, so girls will forgive you if it’s not perfect!

Next, learn proper kissing technique. That means knowing how to move in for the kiss, controlling your tempo, kissing for affection, and kissing for intimacy. There are lots of websites out there, but I like this site the best for kissing girls the RIGHT ways. You’ll get pictures and everything about what’s right and what’s wrong.

I’m going to cover two particular areas of kissing in this column: kissing for affection, and kissing for intimacy. First let’s talk about kissing for intimacy. Say you’re on a date and want to move things to the next level. The best way to do it is to talk about how you’d like to kiss her. As one guru, Craig, says, “Talking about sex is the first step towards having it.” Likewise, talking about kissing is the first step towards actual kissing. It will relax both of you and, if said in a relaxed, confident, NOT desperate tone, can really excite a girl.

Once you do get to kissing, kiss with passion: don’t half-job it! Use your arms, your body: press into her, touch her face with your hands, stroke her hair. All these things show you’re serious about intimacy and want her in the worst way.

If she pulls in, you’re doing great. Pulls back, just slow it down. Just because she doesn’t do it with the same passion as you doesn’t mean she wants it. A lot of times girls want to take things slower than guys. That’s fine: match her tempo. Kiss her on the neck, the cheeks, all over. Eventually that will warm her up.

When she starts to get into it (moaning, moving closer to you, grabbing you back), you can start kissing her in her erogenous zones all over the body. Remember, kissing isn’t just on the lips! If you really want to get intimate, kiss her below the neck–on her thighs, on her hips (very sensitive area!) and even on her feet. Not to mention the obvious areas. This should guarantee you a great night.

But kissing doesn’t end with sex! Too many guys make that mistake. Sex is only the BEGINNING of the kissing stage! As you’re performing, remember to kiss her all over her body, particularly on the neck and breasts. Show that you’re not interested just in a quick act–you want to be passionate and intimate, as well. Kissing achieves this purpose, and will make the girl eager to do it again!

For affection, kissing is the best. As I say in my e-book and audio articles, women LOVE surprises, so nothing shows you love your girlfriend (or wife) like a surprise, spontaneous kiss out of nowhere! She’ll love it, and thank you for it. She’ll also reward you for it, by staying with you and treating you great. Happy wife, happy life!

The same goes with girlfriends. Don’t be surprised if she starts bringing you breakfast in bed, buying you presents, acting a lot nicer, when you give her lots of kisses out of nowhere, just to remind her that you love her. This works!

Remember, kissing is meant to be FUN. Once you see the fun and enjoyable side of kissing, you’ll surely want more and more. As an old Chinese proverb goes, “Kissing is like drinking tea with a tea strainer: you can never get enough.”

To learn more great kissing techniques, I recommend the following site. I find its information to be practical, effective, and very easy to digest:

http://www.kissing101.net

By: James Brito, Relationship Expert

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How to Kiss a Girl and Make Her Want More

June 21, 2009 | Leave a Comment

You have to be able to read body language to see when a girl wants you to make a move.  Then, you have to have the cajones to actually go in for the kill.  Finally, most importantly, you have to know HOW to kiss a girl when you connect for the first time.

The right situation is key.  Some girls would never kiss you in a public situation.  Some girls would never kiss you for the first time if it’s not exactly the right time.  Some will kiss you just because you made the move.  Some will turn you down once to see if you try again.  All of this is obviously personal preference, so some guidelines on how to kiss a girl are in order.

Eye contact has been rated the number one way by women to create that spark before you kiss a girl.  Make atleast a full hard one and a half seconds of eye contact.  Next, look at the lips as you lean in (slowly).  Make one last glimpse of eye contact before you close your eyes and lay your lips on hers.  Please, for heaven’s sake, don’t go open mouth for the first kiss unless you’re in the bedroom.  Kiss her once, deep, passionately for one and a half seconds, then break and give a quick kiss.  As you back away, look into her eyes and smile.  That is how to kiss a girl for the first time.

Now, none of this is useful if you can’t time it correctly.  More important than how to kiss a girl is when to kiss a girl.  Seizing the moment is crucial, but how to recognize that moment?  If a girl wants you to kiss her, she’ll let you know – you just have to know what to look for.  She’ll lean into you and laugh and touch.  Most importantly is touch.  Any touch that doesn’t seem accidental means she’s into you.  If she’s made body contact with you or put her hands on you, then you know somewhere deep inside she wants you to kiss her.  Make sure to make some eye contact to make sure.  Lean in just barely into her bubble and see if she lets you in…if she does, a classy move could be to kiss her on the cheek as you both laugh at a joke.  If it’s ok to be in her bubble, it’s ok to make your move….don’t second guess yourself.  Just make sure to follow the above tips on how to kiss a girl and you’ll be fine.

By: Javier Serventez

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French Kissing – Tips to Give your Partner the Perfect Kiss

June 20, 2009 | Leave a Comment

In a survey 90% of women said that they wanted more kissing and noted it is one of their favorite signs of affection, but how to you give the perfect French kiss?

Anyone can give a great French kiss and that’s what this article is all about.

Don’t think French kissing is just for teenagers its 0one of the most expressive acts you can do to show your love and desire for your partner.

Kissing can express a whole manner of emotions including:

Friendship, emotional connection or can be a sexual action, as in the French kiss.

Before we look at what goes into a great French kiss and how to give the perfect one lets review a few basic points.

What is a French kiss?

A French kiss is sexual by nature and is a kiss where the tongue is put inside your partner’s mouth and they do the same to you.

French kiss basics

To start tilt your head to one side and your partner will do the same, this of course allows tongues to enter the mouth and avoids noses clashing.

If you want your partner to want to give you a French kiss in the first place make sure you practice good oral hygiene and have regular dental check ups.

If you don’t do this, your partner may not want to kiss you in the first place!

A Personal expression

The mouth creates a smile and that is an expression of emotion and passion we communicate everyday with our smiles and words.

When we get to French kiss communication is raised to a different, highly personal level and this is why

French kissing is such a turn on for everyone.

Here are tips to help you enjoy the perfect French kiss.

1. Relax and enjoy

If you are nervous and are tense, you become stiff and this will ruin a kiss as this will translate to your partner. To enjoy a French kiss you must be relaxed.

When you’re worried you won’t be able to concentrate correctly and all great French kissing involves concentrating simply on the kiss.

If you relax you can go with the moment and respond naturally to the person you are kissing which makes a natural connection and they will respond.

3. Variety

Vary your kissing so your partner does not know exactly what will come next so experiment with the speed and pressure of your kisses.

4. Coming up for air

You will need to come up for air now and again but use these moments to kiss lightly other areas such as one of the most erotic zones of all the neck.

5. Use your whole body

Use your hands on the back of your partner and on their buttocks and move your body.

There is nothing more of a turn off, than to kiss someone who is stiff and that’s why it is important to be relaxed as we stated earlier.

4. Let it flow

The best kisses have a natural flow between you and your partner.

They vary from gentle, to aggressive mouth and tongue contact, with pauses for breath.

When you French kiss someone and your both relaxed and concentrating on the moment the kiss will simply develop naturally.

What makes a perfect French kisser?

Its simple.

It’s a natural flow of emotion and desire between you and your partner they points to keep in mind

you must be relaxed to lose yourself in the moment, you need to respond to your partner and you need to add variety.

Last but not least, use your whole body to communicate not just your mouth.

If you do the above, you will enjoy the perfect French kiss.

By: Sacha Tarkovsky

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Learn How To Kiss

June 20, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Trust me nobody will tell you if you are a bad kisser but they will tell everybody else. Good kissing is really important. That is why you need to get it right. No one wants to be drooling all over somebody’s face.

Who doesn’t want to be a good kisser? Kissing is the first intimate touch. In actuality it is the first impression of intimacy. We all know how important first impressions are – that is why being a good kisser will get you lots of brownie points in the intimacy department.

What Creates A Good Kiss?

A good kiss uses no one technique. Both the lips and tongue need to be immersed. A good kiss is wonderful. You know how we all like to be touched. Caressing and kissing together paired with impulses of passion will really get your partner going.

Good kissing is sensitive and all inclusive. You use both your tongue and mouth to simulate your partners senses. You can caress the inside of her lips with your tongue while touching your lips against theirs. Then while putting your hands through your partners hair you really stimulate the senses.

After it is over there is that wow moment where you look one another in the eyes with a deep feeling of connection and pleasure. We all know that look when you really stimulate your partner with passionate yet sensitive kissing. This is the real peak of intimacy – get it right and everyone concerned will experience the ultimate ecstasy.

A Few Essential Tips

Sometimes it is difficult to maintain a great kiss when you are trying to shuffle your feet around to move in closer after you start. Move in close to your partner before you kiss them. By being close in the beginning you will not end up in an uncomfortable position.

Make sure that you are being gentle and follow their signals to know when to kiss with more passion. Sometimes passion can make you be a little rough, and while a stronger kiss has its place that usually isn’t from the start. Treat your partners lips as if they were the most delicate thing you could imagine.

If you can master being relaxed while you are kissing, even if you are a little nervous about your technique, you will become a much better kisser. When you are tense anywhere on your body it will show in your kiss.

Make sure that you relax and enjoy the moment.

By: Randy Cartwright

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French Kissing – Basics Drive your Partner Wild With Passion!

June 20, 2009 | Leave a Comment

It’s a fact women particularly love to be kissed and the lips are one of the most important erogenous zones for both men and women and the power of a good kiss is neatly summed in the following quote.

“You may conquer with the sword, but you are conquered by a kiss” -Daniel Heinsius

The French kiss is romantic and a great start to foreplay as well. It is a fantastic way for you to express your feelings, emotions and desire.

This article will focus on basic French kissing techniques that are guaranteed to fill both you and your partner with passion and desire.

The French is erotic and fun so let’s look at French kissing techniques in more detail

What actually is a French kiss? Quite simply, French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongues and kissing is probably the most physically romantic two people can get.

There really is no right or wrong way to kiss.

The point to keep in mind is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing.

Try kissing your partner a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing. While there is no right or wrong way to kiss, here are a few tips to help you create the perfect French kiss.

Relax Yourself

You lips should be relaxed, you body should also be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish for your partner!

Open Lips

Open your lips (not to wide) but just like you do when regularly breathing through your mouth.

Positioning

Do not have your faces directly opposite each other or your noses will clash. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of your partners.

Your mouths will then meet at the corner of your partner’s mouth and you won’t clash noses!

Tongue

Open your mouth and put your tongue out around an inch or two. Your tongue will then go into your partner’s mouth and theirs will of course go into yours.

Circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (and all people like to kiss differently) then just do the same as they do, if you are enjoying the sensation.

Common French kissing techniques are:

1.Flicking of the tongue over your partners

2.Exploring the inside of the mouth with the tongue.

3.Lightly touching of tongues while exploring the mouth.

The most important tip!

Never leave your tongue still or doing nothing, make sure you are constantly using it and showing feelings and passions and finding out what your partner really likes and try and add variety to all your kisses.

Head movement

Again all people are different. Some people will move their heads slightly in a circular motion or figure eight and some times people don’t move their heads at all, this is all down to personal preference.

The French kiss is a wonderful experience and most people love kissing affection love and desire are all contained within a kiss as Robert Browning once said:

“The moment eternal – just that and no more – When ecstasy’s utmost we clutch at the core While cheeks burn, arms open, eyes shut, and lips meet!”

By: Sacha Tarkovsky

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