How To Flirt
February 27, 2010 | 25 Comments
There isn’t just an art to flirting—there’s a science! Use these proven methods to charm and seduce.
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Three security guards watched a group of teens punch, kick and rob a 15-year-old girl in the downtown Seattle Metro bus tunnel without intervening. (Feb. 10)
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February 27, 2010 | 18 Comments
1 Learn how he likes his penis to be handled
His penis is not like your clitoris – it’s not highly sensitive and delicate. So he’ll want you to go straight for his penis during sex, and once you’re there he’ll want you to apply a firm pressure (though you can make sex last longer by teasing him and working gradually down his body towards his penis). Learn how he masturbates, if necessary by watching him, and you’ll soon see the kind of stroke and pressure he appreciates most.
2 Play with his balls
Because men are so penis-centred, they and their partners tend to forget how sensitive and erotic his scrotum and testicles can be. Play with his balls as you give him fellatio, for example, and he’ll be in heaven. You could even try taking one at a time into your mouth and gently rolling it around.
3 Play with his perineum
If you haven’t discovered the erotic potential of his perineum yet – that’s the area between his scrotum and anus – then another treat’s in store. You can press, lick, stroke and tease this area, right up to his anus, and increase his sexual excitement enormously.
4 When he comes, stimulate his anus
A finger on his anus when he comes can make a man’s orgasm feel much more intense. If he’s near his orgasm, it can make him come there and then. And if you put a (well-lubed) finger inside him and press his prostate gland when he comes, he’s likely to have a massive orgasm!
5 Talk dirty as you make love
A lot of women are too inhibited to talk dirty during sex, but I’d say most men like it – a lot. If you tell him to “fuck my hot wet cunt” when you’re both enjoying sex, he’s most likely to come there and then!
6 Do something different
If you always employ the same old routine during sex, do something different. For example, try a different sex position. If you usually have sex with him on top, roll over so you’re doing it on your sides, facing each other. If you haven’t tried woman on top, get up there and ride him. If he likes rear entry (and which man doesn’t?) then let him enter you from behind while you lie in the spoons position on the bed – that’s more intimate than rear entry but probably just as exciting for him. Or take the initiative, and seduce him in the kitchen, making love on the table or the floor! These positions are especially fun to try when you’re feeling horny.
7 Try watching porn together
Men like porn, and whether you appreciate it or not, it’s here to stay, and he’s most likely using it to get off. But the good news is that there is some nice erotic stuff around that isn’t abusive to women. One name to watch out for is Femme Productions. Sharing a sexy DVD before you go to bed can really add a spark of passion and excitement to your sex.
8 Wake him up in the night for sex
A woman can always seduce a man subtly if she puts her mind to it. So see what happens if you press your buttocks up against him in the night, or if you press your hot vulva against his cock as he slumbers. Move your hips around a little as you do this, and he’ll soon be raring to go. This might be best reserved for the nights you don’t have an early start next day.
9 Use lube if you need to – or even if you don’t
Even if you have a nicely moist vagina, a little extra lube is often a revelation. Just a squirt of Astroglide or Probe can change the feel of sex completely, making it seem like a new experience.
10 Try lube inside the condom
Just a little lube inside the condom can make sex much more pleasurable, but don’t use too much or it might just slip off when you least expect it!
11 Be assertive during sex
Take the lead during sex, act like a sex goddess, and do all the work for a change. Men like their partners to be assertive and sexually dominant from time to time, because having the responsibility for always initiating sex is tiring and involves at least some rejection. It’s a refreshing change when a woman acts as the dominant partner.
Yes, girls, men want you to sometimes take the lead and be sexually assertive. If you aren’t sure how to do this, start by climbing on top of him – the woman on top position can be very empowering for you, and he’s sure to love it. You can control the depth and speed of thrusting, especially if you tell him to lie still and enjoy it while you ride him!
12 Let him masturbate between your breasts
Ladies, you just don’t appreciate how much men like breasts. Even if you’re used to him making a bee-line for them when you make love, you still don’t know….just take it from me, it’s like being in heaven when you fold them around his penis and let him thrust between them.
13 Alternate shallow and deep thrusts during vaginal intercourse
Men often like deep thrusting because it feels more powerful and sexy – and it makes them come quicker. But a good plan is to switch between deep thrusts and shallow ones as you make love, because shallow thrusts delay his orgasm, stimulate his glans and frenulum (the most sensitive bits of his penis), and they also hit your G-spot.
14 Press back against him as he thrusts
You don’t have to be passive during sex. Even in the man on top position you can thrust back against him, buck your pelvis, and add all your sexual energy to his. If you’re having sex in the rear entry position, get him to stand still while you move back and forth along his penis.
15 Tell him you how much you want him to fuck you
Assuming your man is just like the rest of us, he’ll want to be told how much you admire, like and desire him. Whereas women want to be cherished by their partners, the corresponding desire in men is to be respected. Telling him how skillful and desirable he is as a lover will press all the right buttons.
16 Masturbate in front of him…
If you feel inhibited about masturbating in front of your partner – don’t. Seeing you bring yourself off is just about as exciting as it gets for him.
17 …then make love to him
If you masturbate in front of him, he’ll get so turned on, he’ll be desperate to fuck you, and he won’t last long when he does!
18 Teach him how you like him to masturbate you
Men aren’t the most subtle creatures in the world when it comes to masturbation, so you may need to coach him in the best ways for you to reach orgasm. Show him what you like, how you like to be touched, and how this changes as you get more aroused.
19 Have your orgasm before he enters you
This is especially good for men who come quite quickly. If he goes down on you (or masturbates you) until you have an orgasm, the pressure on him not to come quickly during sex is much reduced. What’s more, making love to you after you’ve had an orgasm means your vagina will still be hot, wet and swollen, and this will be a real turn-on for him, not to mention the fact that it will feel absolutely wonderful for him when he penetrates you.
20 Undress in front of him
Yes, we know you’re self-conscious about your body. But here’s the good news – he likes it. He knows it intimately, he makes love to it, and he sees it as a thing of beauty; he doesn’t look for the flaws in it, like you might be tempted to do. So he’ll love watching you undress, and if you add a little innocent seduction into the process, he’ll get turned on and show you how much he appreciates your body when you do make love.
21 Buy some sexy underwear and wear it like it was made for you
You don’t have to feel like a tart if you buy some sexy lingerie and act like a tease. High quality, pretty underwear is a turn on for both men and women.
22 Be wanton
It’s a common male fantasy to be bedded by a wanton woman who’ll act dirty and uninhibited. You can help him fulfill that fantasy by unleashing the sex goddess in yourself for a night. For example, try whispering to him when you’re having a night out that you aren’t wearing any underwear and that you’re oozing with desire for him. See the look on his face and you’ll know what I mean – but be prepared to have sex the moment you get through your door when you arrive home!
23 Ask him about his sexual fantasies – and perhaps act them out
But don’t laugh when he tells you what they are. He may not have shared his innermost fantasies with you for all kinds of reasons; they may even be some of his deepest secrets. Even if you don’t want to act them out, respect the fact that he shared them with you. If you do act them out, have fun, and don’t take it too seriously.
24 Don’t alienate him from the bedroom
Pretty frills and bright patterns and colors are all very well, but it’s his bedroom too, and he may appreciate being consulted about how much lace you want around the place. In short, don’t make your bedroom too feminine for his comfort.
25 Let his penis calm down after sex
Some men have such a sensitive glans after sex that they can’t bear to have it touched for quite a while. So be careful of his penis after you have made love.
26 Explore his body
Despite being so penis centered, men do like being licked, touched and stroked all over their bodies. For example, a man’s nipples are likely to be just as sensitive as yours – so encourage him to let you play with them. Some other places to stroke, tickle and lick him: his legs, buttocks and armpits; his neck and scalp; his toes; his back…..so that’s just about all over his body, really!
27 Know how to kiss
Yes, it’s nice to enjoy gentle kissing, but he’ll certainly appreciate a bit of full-on mouth work from you from time to time. It hints at penetration and breaks down barriers to intimacy and familiarity.
28 Discover his favorite sexual positions
All the sex positions have something in their favor, but like most men, he’ll have his favorite. It might be man on top for the deep penetration and feeling of dominance; it might be rear entry for the sheer pleasure of fucking you from behind; it might be woman on top for the pleasure of lying back and enjoying the ride. Most likely, it’s all of them! But there will be ways in which you can make it even better for him, perhaps by squeezing his penis while he’s inside you, or wrapping your legs around him when he’s on top. Take the time to find out what turns him on, and he’ll show his gratitude both in and out of the bedroom!
29 Don’t fake orgasm
You’re not a charity, and it’s disrespectful to both of you to pretend you’re sexually satisfied when you’re not. If you don’t make it to orgasm during intercourse, have your orgasm from him giving you oral sex before you have intercourse. Remember, very few woman actually reach orgasm through intercourse, and most they like it for other reasons such as feeling loved or giving their partner pleasure.
30 Learn to give great head
Nothing you can do for a man shows you love him like oral sex. Women think men like it because it feels good – and that’s certainly true. But men also like it because it’s the ultimate symbol of acceptance by their partner – that she will take his most precious part and accept it into her mouth. Good oral sex is at least as good as vaginal intercourse for me, and many other men as well, I’m sure. And when you know how to do it well, you’ll have a lover keen to pleasure you in return
31 Develop a tight vagina
Apart from the fact that a healthy set of PC muscles is good for you, it does make a difference to men during sex whether their partner has a tight vagina or not. Some men say that making love to a woman who’s had a child is much less satisfying – well, if the woman has toned up her muscles, with Kegel exercises, that need not be the case.
So there we are! Some simple tips to make sex great for men. Like it or not, sex is incredibly important to most men, and most relationships go a lot better when the partners are enjoying fulfilling sex. If you as a woman get satisfaction from seeing your man happy in bed, then the tips above go a long way towards making that happen.
Rod Phillips
http://www.articlesbase.com/sexuality-articles/thirtyone-ways-women-can-make-sex-great-for-men-76768.html
The Infidelity Epidemic… Are Good Women Causing Their Men to Cheat?
February 27, 2010 | Leave a Comment
Straying husbands. Bed-bouncing boyfriends. Broken trust. Getting caught. Trying NOT to get caught.
What’s causing all this hanky-panky? And who’s mostly to blame for today’s outbreak of cheating? Is it philandering men? The other women? OR the wives and girlfriends who unknowingly compel their mates to cheat?
In today’s bedroom annals, it’s not exactly what you might think. Even the recent much-talked-about hit movie Sex and the City brought to light new insights into how some women are unknowingly setting their men up to cheat. Yet one wonders why those same unsuspecting women are devastated and “mad as hell” when they find out that their men have been to bed with other women.
But does cheating seem to naturally happen when an uninterested gal doesn’t give her man enough sexual satisfaction? Exactly what changes in the relationship and the bedroom, turning things from honeymoon happiness to hearing that dreaded “Not tonight, I have a headache” mantra?
The truth is, when unfaithfulness occurs there is enough blame on both sides of the bed. A woman who’s lukewarm under the sheets, or downright disinterested and dismissive, can’t deny that much of her bedroom behaviors could be driving an otherwise loving husband into somebody’s else arms. Maybe even permanently!
Wake up girls! Watch what’s starting the cheating process.
First of all, most men really don’t understand much about the women in their beds. Interviews across the country have revealed that many women are sexually unfulfilled, frustrated, and confused … not by men, but by their own lack of understanding about their own bodies.
Sadly, most of us learned about sex in the 7th grade locker room from our best friends, or, of course, in those sex ed classes where adults filled us with fear that having sex either led to getting a baby or getting a disease. The message either way: You just weren’t supposed to do it!
We were certainly never taught much about the intricacies of our own bodies. We were never taught about finding pleasure or sexual satisfaction. There was certainly no talk about proper body parts. Boys, we learned, had penises and girls had vaginas. As if that was the end of it. The assumption was that we were supposed to figure it out once we were married or at least in a committed relationship. Well, sadly enough, many women never did figure “it” out. And as a result, many are missing out on the wonders of great sex and may be inadvertently causing much of the sexual dissatisfaction and male/female communication problems going on out there.
This lack of understanding of their own bodies has led many women to short-changing themselves in the sexual department. While women initially may have been willing sex partners with their mates, if they didn’t know how to achieve their own satisfaction, much less explain their needs to their partner, the end result could be one happy man (who blissfully falls asleep right afterwards) and one less-than-smiling (and disillusioned) woman.
Unfortunately, as Meg Ryan so aptly showed us years ago in When Harry Met Sally, a good woman can fake her satisfaction well enough to leave any man thinking he’s a stud and believing that she’ll be excited about a repeat performance — when in fact many women just can’t wait for lovemaking to be over.
These women naturally pull away from their men. Who wants night after night of disappointment and play-acting? And whether the disappointment is subtle or obvious, the men notice. And then THEY pull away from their women.
Of course for women who used sex as a means to capture a man, then once hooked, turn cold in the sex department, they only have themselves to blame if their men quit being interested and end up coming home late more and more often, probably finding comfort elsewhere.
But we have to ask: Are men at all responsible in this complex puzzle?
Here are some interesting points:
* The biggest thing that men do wrong is to assume they understand women. The truth is, even if a man has a fabulous sexual relationship with one gal, the next one can be so very different that all bets are off that her needs will even remotely be the same.
* The differences between women are huge. And assuming that they are all alike can be the kiss of death — even for a well-intentioned guy who has put some time into studying the fairer sex.
* Both men and women need a re-education about sex, and should spend time learning about each others’ anatomy, desires, fantasies, sensations, and the intricacies of what makes each of us tick.
* Porn sites and sex films (which are mostly written and directed by men) do NOT educate anyone accurately. They’re the basis of some of our biggest and most harmful sex myths.
* Research shows that guys think about sex in some fashion about every 52 seconds. Women do so about once a day. Another difference between the genders!
* Men want to feel validated as men, and sex helps them do that. Women want to feel loved and needed and cherished. And — surprise! — lovemaking helps them feel that.
* When things get out of whack in the bedroom, it definitely spills over into the rest of the relationship.
* Not every couple needs a sex therapist. But every man and woman needs to take steps towards better understanding about the opposite sex and themselves.
* Until women do a better job of understanding their own bodies, communicating their needs to their lovers, and embracing the fact that sex is a fabulous gift that we as humans are blessed with — and NOT a chore — our bedroom issues will only continue. And so will cheating, divorce, and heartache.
Mary Jo Fay, R.N., M.S.N.
http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/the-infidelity-epidemic-are-good-women-causing-their-men-to-cheat-742509.html
Five Reasons Why I Love Article Marketing
February 27, 2010 | 3 Comments
I Love Article Marketing and Here’s Why You Should As Well.
I’ve been wanting to write about the topic of article marketing for some time now, but, never really got around to it. Timing is everything, I guess, and the timing seems to be right with the current state of the economy. Recently, there has been a huge downturn in our economy with many, many folks being laid off or having to take less in the form of benefits or even in less wages. One of the major US auto makers has even announced that they are closing all of their plants for December to help cut costs. And it appears as though all sectors are being hit. Banking, housing, investments, retail and, as I’ve already mentioned, the auto industry all are reeling from being assaulted by from multiple fronts.
The value of the dollar is down, oil can’t seem to find a stable price, scandals are sending shock waves across financial markets that have investors freezing in their tracks and every company with a big enough backbone seems to be in Washington looking for a handout. The little guy doesn’t seem to stand a chance. Or, maybe he does. Folks right now need hope. They need feel secure about something and they need to be able to look into the future and see that all isn’t bleak.
Hence, my five reasons why I love article marketing. I’m not going to cover the “how to” here because resources abound on the internet and I want this to deal more with the “why”. Whaddya say we jump in ALL feel the love? My first reason is pure ego stroking. No bones about it. In a time when we can get a little down because we start to think that we’re just a line item on ledger sheet for some corporate account and can be deleted with just a keystroke, there’s something very reassuring and magical to see your name attached to an article that’s been posted on a website. You might even say there’s a bit of chest thumping and a certain “See? I’m not just a number!” attitude about the whole thing. And who couldn’t use a little ego inflation anyway? There’s a sense of accomplishment and pride involved in creating. The exact opposite feeling of being laid off!
Next, article marketing is therapeutic. Let’s be real here: there’s an awful lot of pent up emotion out there over job cuts, government handouts, retail prices skyrocketing, etc. and putting pen to paper (or keys to computer as the case may be) is one heck of a way to vent. Its good for the spleen, not to mention what it can do for marriages, to puke your frustration out onto a page, even if you never try to get it published! Your spouse will love you for it, trust me on this one.
Third, it gives you purpose. Writing an article and then having to go find a place to post it allows for focused thought. And, given the state of some of our minds a little more focus isn’t a bad thing. First you have to conceive a topic, then decide how and what to write about it, formatting must be done as well as structure and then placement has to happen. It’s a way of slowing down the mind and helping to stop the whirlwind of trivial minutiae that’s been stacking up inside.
Fourth, and probably the most important reason, is that it can be profitable! And isn’t that primarily what we started to hint at in the beginning? Folks are hurting. Wallets are thinning. Many of us could use a few more bucks and article marketing is certainly one way to do it. Whether it’s writing a review or trying to sell a product on ebay or promoting a website, they ALL can be used for profiting. Ever told a friend about a movie you liked or a restaurant to stay away from? Well, then, you’ve got yourself the beginning of an article. You didn’t have to be Mark Twain to tell your friend about a recipe you tried did you? Turn it into an article and market it.
Lastly, and this is tied to the previous point, is: it’s very cost effective. Truthfully, if you’re struggling with cash flow (or even if you’re flush with cash) article marketing is extremely easy on the wallet. Most of the sites you’re likely to market to are free or cheap and so the return on investment becomes exactly what the accountants like to see. High! So, pennies can ultimately become dollars. Plus, there’s the added residual effect. Meaning that once you place an article out on the internet it remains out there continuing to work for you, for years!
So, there you have it, my five reasons of why I love article marketing. Go out on the internet and do some research. You’ll be amazed at the amount of information you’ll find out there. And, who knows, maybe you’ll find a new niche for yourself.
Click the link below for more information about article marketing.
RJ Dudley
http://www.articlesbase.com/networking-articles/five-reasons-why-i-love-article-marketing-695176.html
