How do you say NO to a guy that wants to kiss you?
Suppose you are in a clun or a restaurant with your friends and you´ve been drinking some cocktails or tequila shots and then there´s guys that invite you and your friends over to their table, and one of them wants to kiss you? what if you dont want to kiss him but since you are not in your right mind anymore cause you´ve drank a little to much and your friends are encouraging you to kiss cuz they are also kissing guys and..so what can you to to stop it from happening?
Don’t do it. Tell everyone that you don’t kiss people you don’t know, then don’t do it. Walk away if you have to. Tell them you need to go to the bathroom. Anything you have to not to do it.
14 Responses to “How do you say NO to a guy that wants to kiss you?”
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Just say you have a cold sore.
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when you grow up it will all make sense. Until then, kiss away…its just a kiss
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just get upp and walk away
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just say you feal like you are gonna barf and then run to the bathroom!
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excuse yourself from the table
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puke on them? go to the bathroom. then again, i don;t drink.
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"I HAVE HERPES!!!!!!"
that should work
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Don’t do it. Tell everyone that you don’t kiss people you don’t know, then don’t do it. Walk away if you have to. Tell them you need to go to the bathroom. Anything you have to not to do it.
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just say no and if they try kick them in the balls, because if they’re drunk a slap on the cheek wont do any good
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slap them as they come in for it lol. no, joking umm, say that you have just been in a bad relationship and you dont want to
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You don’t be foolish and drink so much that you don’t have control over your actions or mind. That’s what…so then if someone tries to kiss you you can either pull away or turn your head. If that person persists, tell them "no thanks" and if they persist further, alert the club staff so a bouncer can make it clear the guy’s advances are unwanted (and so is his presence at the club).
If you go out and drink so much that you aren’t in a right mind to say "no" or push someone away, then that is YOUR fault. What if you got pregnant or an STD because of a drunk night partying?
A few drinks are okay…keep yourself under control or have a non-drinker with you, to keep you safe and in line. Alcohol isn’t an excuse for inappropriate or foolish behavior.
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Lack of an answer does not mean you give permission. Unless you actually say yes, or make a move to kiss him when he asks to kiss you, he should not be kissing you. Silence does not mean yes.
If you can manage to shake your head "no", do that. If you are interested in the guy but don’t want to kiss him because you’ve just met, you could smile and shake your head…he might think you’re just shy. But if he starts pressuring you, take one of your gf’s to the bathroom with you and tell her that you don’t like what’s going on. If she’s a good friend she’ll try to put a stop to anyone pressuring you. Or, if the other girls at the table are trying to get you to kiss a random guy, tell THEM to kiss him instead.
Try not to drink so much that you can’t communicate properly. I’m not trying to lecture you, because it happens to the best of us, but it is important to keep yourself safe and if you find yourself in uncomfortable situations it is good to have your head straight.
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Either learn not to drink so much, Learn How to Say NO, or learn to not go to some Guys’ table and think that the Guy is not going to Want something from you. You might try looking into PEER Pressure. Maybe you need some new friends.
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